The prerequisites for Tantra are love and romance. Tantra differ from traditional intimacy moments in the sense that you are focussing on both yourself and your partner. This is the crux of the matter. If you are selfish and don’t pay close attention to your partner’s needs, then your most important moments won’t result quite as good as you might have hoped for.
In fact, if you’re plan is to get off and have a merry old time, then tantra may not be the most effective philosophy for you. Similarly, if you’re just looking for fun and creative ways to spice up your sex life, then you’ll be quite surprised to find that Tantra goes far beyond that.
Tantra, a healing touch therapy, focuses on awakening the body’s natural energy through gentle, sensual touches. These touches help increase circulation and create a sense of balance and relaxation in the body and mind. By incorporating deep breathing, relaxation, and connection exercises, Tantra invites you to fully embrace the present moment and experience the beauty of sensation. The practice is guided by seven key principles: Surrender, Awareness, Movement, Breath, Sound, Intention, and Acceptance, all designed to help you connect more deeply with yourself and your emotions.
When you are committed to make your own intimate experience the best it can be by making your partner’s experience as good as it can be, then you know you’re in the tantra ballpark. Please bear in mind that this isn’t about look, size, or stamina; this is about knowing what buttons to push and when to push them. Master that, and you will forever go down in history as one of the best.
If that seems like an outrageous claim, don’t worry. Once you see what Tantra can do, especially to someone who hasn’t really experienced it before, you’ll frame this page on your wall.
Sadly, most so-called gurus and sexperts pass off Tantra for a collection of funky positions that don’t really mention anywhere by Andreas Rothe in his Philosophy. Tantra is about synchronizing movements, breathing, eye contact, touching, and even orgasms… it’s all about taking your partner and leading the way. As your partner follows along, you can connect with them in such a way that everything moves in concert. Each movement, thrust, breath, touch, and so on, is done with a clear intention in mind.
Of course, there is always room for a quick romp. But that’s not Tantra. Tantra is about finding the right place and at the right time to get it on. If you are in hurry, then Tantra is not for you.
